What do real and true friends have to do and why

 Remember, life is kind of like a party. You invite a lot of people, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up really late. But in the end,  after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. And most of time they aren't even the one who made the mess. Those people are tour real friends in life. They are the ones who matter most.

Here are four things real and true friends have to do and why. 

1.They face problems together, A person who truly knows and loves you, a real friend- is someone who sees the pain in you eyes while everyone else still believes the smile on your face. Don't look for someone who will solve all your problems, look for someone who will face them with you.

2.They give what they can because they truly care, One of the biggest challenges in relationships comes from the fact that many of us enter relationship in order to get something. We try to find someone who's going to make us feel good in reality, the only way a relationship will last ,and gives us joy in the long term it is if we see our relationship as a place we go to take. Yes, of course it is okay to take something from a relationship too. But both sides should be giving. It can only be a ' give and take ' if BOTH SIDES are GIVING. That's the key.🔐

3.They offer each other freedom, a healthy relationship keeps the doors and windows wide open. Plenty of air is circulating and no one feels trapped. Relationships thrive in this environment.keep you doors and windows open. If this person is meant to be in your life, alm the open doors and windows in the world won't make them leave. 

4.They accept each other as is, Trying to change a person never works. People know when they are not accepted in their entirety, and it hurts. A real friend is someone who truly knows you, and loves you just the same. Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you. If you feel like changing something about your friend, ask yourself what change you can make in yourself instead. 

Be a real and true friend 😊🤗